My random thoughts, my crazy world; a life lived with mental illness has taught me much...most of all, how to be compassionate for others whatever their circumstances. With love, patience and kindness, we can learn to live together in this Crazy World.
Sunday, July 8, 2018
Monday, January 22, 2018
People Can Be so Cruel
The saddest story I've heard in a long time, that of David and Louis Turpin's thirteen children, who were recently found, some tied up with ropes and shackles.
The husband and wife, both, grew up in Princeton, West Virginia. The children's aunt says that she and her mother were abused by a family friend or relative; Louis ran away to Texas with David when she was sixteen years old and they soon married in 1985.
In 1990, the aunt came to stay with them in Fort Worth; she says they had four kids at that time and she noticed that they were extremely strict with the oldest daughter in particular. She wasn't encouraged to talk to the kids and they weren't allowed to talk to her without permission. Weird.
They also told her she wasn't allowed to tell anybody where she lived, or make calls from their phonr or talk to anybody about them; and they made her get out of the shower in front of them (really weird). Louise eventually kicked her out for talking to friends at work.
They were evicted from their home in Fort Worth and moved to Rio Vista in 2000; again being evicted in 2010 from that house. Both houses were said to have been a "mess" - scratches on the doors and dirt all over the walls. The first being described as having "deplorable filth." Neighbors said the family was odd; they knew "something" was going on over there.
They moved to Paris, California and registered their house as the "Sandcastle Day School," so they could homeschool the kids. They dressed the kids in all matching clothing. A neighbor there reports seeing the kids march back and forth between two rooms for hours every night; two kids eventually (just this month) escaped from a window and called 911. The parents were arrested.
The youngest is two years old. The oldest child, a now 29 year old woman, weighs only 89 pounts; they are all terribly malnourished, enduring starvation for long periods of time, living in squaller, weren't allowed to clean themselves - allowed only two baths per year - and were physically and mentally abused, deprived of affection and quite literally imprisoned. They aunt says she hadn't been able to see the children in over a decade and she is horrified; she has no idea how her sister could have done this.
How could ANY ONE do this???? Sick, sick, sick.
Absurd as it is, these horrible parents told their children that the world was full of horrible people. They are quickly learning that this is not true; most of the world is full, loving, caring, compassionate people like myself, who feel deeply for these children (young and grown). Blessings, we send, to each of them - and others like them - with the hope that they can live full and happy lives from here on out.
The husband and wife, both, grew up in Princeton, West Virginia. The children's aunt says that she and her mother were abused by a family friend or relative; Louis ran away to Texas with David when she was sixteen years old and they soon married in 1985.
In 1990, the aunt came to stay with them in Fort Worth; she says they had four kids at that time and she noticed that they were extremely strict with the oldest daughter in particular. She wasn't encouraged to talk to the kids and they weren't allowed to talk to her without permission. Weird.
They also told her she wasn't allowed to tell anybody where she lived, or make calls from their phonr or talk to anybody about them; and they made her get out of the shower in front of them (really weird). Louise eventually kicked her out for talking to friends at work.
They were evicted from their home in Fort Worth and moved to Rio Vista in 2000; again being evicted in 2010 from that house. Both houses were said to have been a "mess" - scratches on the doors and dirt all over the walls. The first being described as having "deplorable filth." Neighbors said the family was odd; they knew "something" was going on over there.
They moved to Paris, California and registered their house as the "Sandcastle Day School," so they could homeschool the kids. They dressed the kids in all matching clothing. A neighbor there reports seeing the kids march back and forth between two rooms for hours every night; two kids eventually (just this month) escaped from a window and called 911. The parents were arrested.
The youngest is two years old. The oldest child, a now 29 year old woman, weighs only 89 pounts; they are all terribly malnourished, enduring starvation for long periods of time, living in squaller, weren't allowed to clean themselves - allowed only two baths per year - and were physically and mentally abused, deprived of affection and quite literally imprisoned. They aunt says she hadn't been able to see the children in over a decade and she is horrified; she has no idea how her sister could have done this.
How could ANY ONE do this???? Sick, sick, sick.
Absurd as it is, these horrible parents told their children that the world was full of horrible people. They are quickly learning that this is not true; most of the world is full, loving, caring, compassionate people like myself, who feel deeply for these children (young and grown). Blessings, we send, to each of them - and others like them - with the hope that they can live full and happy lives from here on out.
Thursday, April 13, 2017
LIFE ON US - Part 2: “Superhuman” (from CuriosityStream.com)
Trillions of organisms have evolved to share us; worms in
our bowels, bacteria on our teeth, fungi in our lungs, and viruses embedded in
our dna; this is our “Microbio.”
We have done so much to try to “clean” ourselves, that we
are doing more damage than good; first, our teeth has declined; oral decay is
of plague proportions affecting 90% of children worldwide. “Its an epidemic of the modern age” – our
ancestors didn’t brush their teeth, and yet, ancient skeletons found show
almost perfect teeth; the closer to modern man we get, the worse condition the
teeth are in on the skulls we find.
There are more than 100 million bacteria in a single drop of saliva,
about 700 species; they form plaque on our teeth. The microbes in our mouth protect us from the food we eat, which
is acidic and would otherwise ruin our teeth; its called “biofilm.” It is actually used to heal the teeth; by
looking in the fossilized plaque of our ancestors, we found that bacteria
changed with the introduction of flour and sugar into our diets. There is now more bad bacteria than good in
our mouths.
One bacteria that lives in our stomach, commonly called the
“gastric demon” is Helocabacta Pilori, and it causes stomach cancer and stomach
ulcers in some people; however, almost everyone has this bacteria and it is
relatively harmless. It also possibly prevents
asthma, but we don’t know quite how yet; testing is being done for vaccines,
using this bacteria. Worms, another
common parasite in the human stomach, are introduced through many of the foods
we eat, particularly meats. Microscopic
views of these creatures are really frightening; and they can also be either
bad or good. Hookworms are being used
as a therapy for Crone’s and Siliac disease; turns out, its saliva has
immuno-supressive properties and proteins that help calm the digestive system.
In our stool, there are more bacteria by ten times, than in
the rest of our body; these bacteria in our gut help control our brain, our
immune system, our overall health, our mood and our body shape. Believe it or not, “fecal transplants” are
being performed to transfer bacteria from a healthy person’s gut into the gut
of an unhealthy person, providing them with the defenses they need to develop a
healthy bowel. This technique has been
known to CURE multiple sclerosis! It
has even seemed to help with depression.
Firmicutis is a bacteria that absorbs fat from the body; it
can work on hyperdrive, or be lazy, and this affects your body shape. Akkermansia is a bacteria for that helps
with weight-loss, and may soon be used medicinally for obese individuals. We need to remember, when we eat, we are
feeding our microbes; if we feed those that make us sick, we feel sick. The rise in diseases that we are
experiencing, it seems, is being caused by the fact that we have sterilized
water and sterilized food now, which is making our immune system weak.
Retro-viruses, which have found their way into our dna, can
replicate and live on for years; occurring only once in a million years, one is
unfolding right now. The koala, in
Austrailia, have developed a retro-virus, which is killing off many with a
lymphoma or leukemia-type sickness. We
ourselves are littered with the remains of these types of ancient battles; 89%
of our dna is a result of retro-viruses.
Even the most basic process of our development is a consequence of this
trick, allowing mother and fetus to “fuse together through the placenta.” Microbes have, in fact, defined our
evolution! Amazing.
Reference:
CuriosityStream. (2014). Information summarized from: https://app.curiositystream.com/series/237;
https://app.curiositystream.com/video/1415; https://app.curiositystream.com/video/1416
LIFE ON US - Part 1: “Private Wildlife” (from CuriosityStream.com)
A recent scientific study, looking for bacterium in people’s
belly-buttons, tested 60 subjects, and found over 2,300 different types of
bacteria. The amazing thing was that no
one, single bacteria was found in all 60 individuals, but everyone had some
form of bacteria or another living in their belly-buttons; some had hundreds of
different types, while others had as little as six types. Oddly, the people who had the LEAST amount
of bacteria in their belly-button, had the poorest health.
Much like the needed biodiversity of our earth, we need a
large variety of bacterium to guard our human ecosystems; on average, there are
more than one billion bacteria on every square centimeter of an average human
being. We provide a food supply for
them, as we loose 30-40 thousand dead skin cells every hour. Bacteria fight each other and fight things
that harm us; Bacillus Subtilis “patrol our skin, looking for fungi to attack”
– if it wasn’t for them, we would end up covered in mold! Staphylococcs Epidermidis, a common skin
bacteria, however, colonizes so quickly sometimes, it takes over an entire
area, as we all know. The key is
communication… yes, communication between bacteria; they have learned to
“connect” and work together to allow the most beneficial or least competitive
bacteria to live together in one area, building alliances “to outsmart
invaders.” Additionally, bacteria can
change their genomes easily; this can be both good and bad. A former rival bacteria can become
cooperative and benefit its host, and a simple skin bacteria can become deadly
in an instant. One bacteria,
Streptococcus (which normally only causes a sore throat), can turn into a
flesh-eating disease which can kill within twelve hours!
One brain parasite, Toxo Plamsa, also called the “Zombie
Bug” needs to reproduce inside of a cat’s gut, specifically; so it gets inside
of mice, from the field, and causes the mouse to lose it’s fear of cats. In fact, it causes it to be attracted to
cats, enticing cats to eat the mouse, so it can reproduce. This is one of the most common human brain
parasites. It affects as many as 55% of
the population in countries where eating rare meat is common.
A little mite, called Demodex Folliculorum, generally lives
in our eyelash pores; they come out at night and crawl on our face, and have
sex and eat, and we never even know it.
They are transparent, and eat the oils and microbes in our pours; and
probably have a little ecosystem of their own in their gut. Testing has been done to compare mites
between individuals; one mite was filmed (under the microscope) giving
birth! Unfortunately for them, a mite
has no anus, and dies when its gut becomes impacted.
Reference:
CuriosityStream. (2014). Information summarized from: https://app.curiositystream.com/series/237;
https://app.curiositystream.com/video/1415; https://app.curiositystream.com/video/1416
Monday, April 3, 2017
Sunday, March 26, 2017
THE TRIAL ~ My Mother Sued My Daughter for Adopting Foster Kids! (Trial date; 3-24-2017)
In case you never saw/heard the original story, WATCH THIS:
Then he simply told my daughter, that he did not
believe her side of the story; he believed my mother. She won. They get the
house back; my daughter has to move her family.
Later that night, I sent my mother a text (not even sure she would get it) telling her she is a horrible person and I don't know how she lives with herself. To my surprise, she replied: "If you weren't such an ugly, mouthy bitch, Kasey would have a home." So there it is... my mother's admission that she took my daughter's home away to SPITE me! Nice, huh?
*I will post more when I obtain the Trial transcript. STAY TUNED!
A Mother's Betrayal - Learning to Stand up for Myself and LISTEN TO THIS:
March 24, 2017
Ears pounding… 1am: I can literally hear the blood pulsing
through my ears, in my head; it hurts.
I’m so tired… today was such a horrible day.
We got to the Courtroom at 8:45am; Trial was scheduled to
start at 9am, but it didn’t end up starting until 10: We went up to the table, and spread out our notes, and
immediately my mother objected to me being at the table to help Kasey. The judge told Kasey she could either have
me there, or call me as a witness, but not both; I knew I needed to testify…
unfortunately, I did not have the presence of mind on the stand to say all of
the things I wanted to say, when the time finally came, though I thought I did
pretty well.
My mother than told her attorney’s to invoke some rule that
prohibits witnesses from being in the Courtroom during the trial, except when
they testified, so I was not only removed from the table next to my daughter,
we were all forced to wait out in the hall, and my daughter had to face my
mother and her team of attorney’s all alone. She was so scared, and not as prepared as we thought.
My step-dad wouldn’t even look at any of us… Kasey said he
said with his head hung, elbows on his knees, the entire time (when I saw him,
he was looking at the wall). He would
not look up at me, even as I passed by them on my way to the witness stand;
sad. It was obvious, HE did not want to
be there – but my mother controls everybody, including him.
Kasey was so terrified; and so lost… she forgot half of her
evidence, and the other half, they objected to and the judge refused to look
at. The fact that she has made the
entire mortgage payment for the past two years did not matter, the fact that my
mother willingly made her an equal owner of the home, did not matter; the fact
that my mother is just a controlling, manipulative, vindictive bitch DID NOT
MATTER EITHER. Apparently, Kasey was
told that she was not allowed to bring my mother’s character into question!
I’m sure, it is because we didn’t file any claim against
her; I tried to get Kasey to let me Counterclaim immediately when she was
served with that original Petition, but she was afraid of pissing my mother off
any further, so she asked me not to. So we
just Answered. Big Mistake.
A Counterclaim would have allowed the admittance of all of
that evidence because our claim would have been based on my mother’s awful
character and past behavior. See, she
makes a HABIT of suing people, having been a lawyer, herself, in years past…
and loves writing hateful, horrible, threatening and demeaning letters to
people or about people, to other people. If we had made this claim in the beginning, he would have had to listen to the evidence regarding that claim at the trial.
The Judge at the Trial would not even recognize the importance
of the ELEVEN-PAGE LETTER my mother previously wrote to the Judge on the foster
kid’s case, Judge Mayfield, where she admitted to emotionally abusing one of
the foster children by telling them they were going to be sleeping in the
bathtub until CPS came back to get them; he didn’t even seem to care. How is that? My mother did her damnedest to get those kids taken away and put
back into the foster care system! How
awful is that?
He wouldn’t listen to anything regarding horrible things she
has done in the past, nor anything regarding all the work we put in on the
Duncanville home, the money from which went to buy the mobile home my daughter
has been living in.
Since I was not privy to anything but my own testimony, I
can’t give much more detail right now; but I will be ordering a transcript of
the Trial to find out what all transpired.
All I know is, after we were told we could come in to listen to the
ruling, that Judge blew my mind! He
commended her for taking the steps to adopt the children, saying foster
parenting is a commendable “occupation” and it’s a wonderful thing that she
did.
Later that night, I sent my mother a text (not even sure she would get it) telling her she is a horrible person and I don't know how she lives with herself. To my surprise, she replied: "If you weren't such an ugly, mouthy bitch, Kasey would have a home." So there it is... my mother's admission that she took my daughter's home away to SPITE me! Nice, huh?
*I will post more when I obtain the Trial transcript. STAY TUNED!
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